This post's a bit long for my 'Slap-up Thoughts' norm.
In my previous post, I had talked about these pages with one-liners that you 'Like' on facebook. Came across one more. It said, "I trusted you, my mistake.". Well, I have a different opinion here.
I trusted you. That's the norm and basis of a relationship. You knew I trusted you, and you let me do it. You knew you would break it one day and you knew that would hurt me. You could have told me that you weren't worth it and I wouldn't have trusted you. So it's your mistake. Maybe you are stone hearted, maybe you were having fun, maybe the gene in you functions that way. Yet, all that is 'you'. So whatever happened, was 'your' mistake.
Until next time,
Chandana C. Shekar
10 comments:
I am blank .... I dont know what comments to give for this thought.. I dont think it's a thought too...
I have experienced the same thoughts before and was so grateful I could move on. This person, this user has to find someone else to use or grow up. He only knows how to do the former...
@Manju- It happens kano. Just that you havent been there. And that is good. Don ever be there also. See, what happens is, when one person truly trusts another person and likes him/her, and finally gets dumped on, he/she tries to search for reason as to why this happened. There wont be any mistake of hers. But still the search for a mistake continues. he starts to think whether she did anythin wrong that didnt go well with him and all that. there will be a tendency to think that u did a lotta mistakes and maybe if u hadnt done that, he wouldn have left u. after that, your friends will start telling you that, you shouldnt have trusted him, he wasnt worth u antha. and the person who cheated on her, he will leave only after puttin false blames on her coz he is not strong enuf to take the responsibilty on him. and finally, when she tries to move on, she again takes the blame on her sayin 'I trusted him, my mistake. So i have to go thru this now.'. So its never endin self punishment on her. arre i've seen this happen with two of my friends..
@Judy- Thanks for dropping by. Yeah, true.. Well, hope you dont have to go through the same thoughts again :)
Have a nice day.
Not only in love but it can happen in any relation.I have been there so i know the pain.Took time to move on but i am glad certain toxic people are now out of my life.
You are right-trusting someone is not a mistake but breaking someone's trust is.
Hi Chandana ...loved your lines ,very well written.
True Kavitha. It can be any relationship.. Thanks :)
yes girllllllllllll THATS what it is THERE bloody fault... Good riddance i would say .. or better luck next time .. But knowing YOU (the person).. I am sure they are gonna say the same to someone else who cared for them ,.. so GOOOOOD RIddance :)
Well. .. I am going thru something like that and can relate to it. .. One of my very closed one broke my trust and that left me satterred. But thankfully, I've moved on.. But it hurts when you have blind faith on someone and they let you down... Thanks for sharing the thoughts..
That's a nice way of convincing yourself that you were right. It helps get rid of guilt::P
@Bikram- :)
@Ann- Hope u feel better soon
@Kish- which one? the line which was mentioned or my take on it? I guess my take is good enuf.
trust has no say in tis world..better realize it b4 its late is wat i say..
ur writeup was kinda cool!!
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