Happy birthday Mommy :)

It's my Mom's birthday today and we had fun. Wished her at 12 midnight. Gave her her gift ( I got her a bag and a wallet). Went to Chamundi hill. Went for dinner at her favourite restaurant. And the most special part - Mom looked very very pretty :) Dad's a real lucky chap :)

Mom's kinda my friend ( as most moms and daughters are). But trust me, the things my mom has done in life for us, I'm sure not many would have done that ( No offence to anybody). I can't do even 40% of it. I don't think many will survive it too!! Hats off to her :).

I have written poems and dedications for my sis, brother, friends. I've always wanted to write one for my mom. But it never happened. Every time I used to pen down matter to write on, it would go on for pages together. Come on yaar, a poem can't be so long right? You guys tell me, when a person does n number of things for you in one single day, how can you describe a whole life-time experience in just 4-5 stanzas?!?!?! And so being the reason, I've never got to write any specific thing for her. Sorry mom :-( :-)

But then, there are two posters in my room and I love what they say. Here it is-

A mother really knows you.

A mother really cares-

you are in her fondest thoughts

And always in her prayers.

She loves you very dearly..

As she has right from the start.

And she's the one you turn to,

When you need a 'helping heart'.

M - is for the Million things she gave me

O - means she is Oh, so beautiful

T - is for the Tears she shed to save me

H - is for her Heart of pure gold

E - is for her Eyes, with love light shining

R - means Right, and right she'll always be

Put them all together, and they spell

MOTHER - A word that means the world to me

p.s.- I gave an Intra-Lesional Steroid Injection today. Yeah I know it's as easy as Intra-muscular. But I cherish the 'first time's of everything in life. And this one's no exception :)

Chandana C. Shekar

Aries Woman

A lot has been told about Aries and Aries women. And a lot of it has turned out to be true about 'The Ram'. I just am trying to add(?) a few traits of an Aries woman which I have observed over the period of years....

Have you just met a female, 'Classy and Elegant', with an instant smile, a firm handclasp and a warm hug? Well, You've just met and Aries woman :)


An Aries woman is very friendly. She almost trusts everybody. But once she gets to know that somebody is unworthy of her trust, that person can never ever win her trust back. If she doesn't like somebody, it clearly shows. She can't even manage to be cordial with that person. 'Forgive and forget' is not something that an Aries woman can do. She hardly forgives somebody who cheats her in any way.

An Aries girl is simple, innocent and emotional. And more than everything, she is somebody who can be called 'Classy and Elegant'. She will always and always want to be and wants everything to be 'Classy and Elegant'.

She is very independent. She can do things herself and she likes it that way. She loves to lead. She has to be the first one to do anything.She is somebody who loves challenges. Though she is strong at times, she can be as vulnerable as a baby.


An Aries woman is very honest. She cant lie. If at all she does, she'll feel so guilty that she'll end up coming up to you and telling the truth.


If you have had a bad dress day and you want to ask an Aries woman for an opinion, please don't!!! Because she is very frank and will tell you on your face that your looking a moron!! And Big mouths and gossip mouths and of the like - please beware of her!!!


When she has an idea or something she wants to get off her mind, she'll call you at four in the morning without a qualm. Why shouldn't you be awake to listen to her? She's awake. That's all that counts. She wants something. She gets it.
You will find her with n number of shopping bags.Few of which she would have bargained for such low rates that you wouldn't have ever thought of!! And few, would be so expensive that you would think that she has paid more than a fortune!!If she sees it and loves it, she buys it. She is very impulsive-be it shopping, saying things out or whatever.


She doesn't care what the world thinks of her. She does what she thinks is right. The only opinions she is bothered about, always and always would be of her family and friends.She doesn't go by any hard and fast rule about what is right and what is wrong. She decides it for herself.
Go out for a cup of coffee with her, and she will end up paying the bill many-a-times.She has a liberal attitude and at times, is lavishly generous. She doesn't mind lending money, or anything material, but she hates borrowing.She hates living in somebody else's money.

An Aries female can be moody too.You will find her to be the most chirpy girl in the world when she is in a good mood. And when she is in a not-so-good mood, you might as well end up thinking she is somebody mute!

An Aries woman is 'In Love With Love'. Its not necessary she should have a partner.She will always be yearning for that someone special in her heart, thinking about him in the monsoon and that will be her idea of romance. She doesn't need a real man for it.

To woo an aries woman, prove it to her that she's desirable. Be sincere while complimenting her. Being over-sweet and too much chasy will make her run away.


Be careful while dating her, because she is somebody who believes in fairy tales, miracles and forever lasting relationships :). So all you guys who are just looking around for a few flicks, please pity on the Aries woman and stay away from her. True that she too gets crushes pretty often.But she is sombody who lets the crush die very soon when she feels that it's not gonna work out.

When in a relationship, she is not somebody who is over possesive. She gives her spouse all the space he wants. But in case she finds something fishy, just know that the relationship is over. She goes out of her way to give you everything you want, and more. In return, she expects love too. She will be a die hard romantic, so much that every time there is a rain shower, she would love to dance with you, as though its the first time!!. Don't ever dominate her, and don't be a puppy too.She hates both extremes.She will always want a balance in the relationship. But most important,If your spouse is an Aries woman,you must remember that your woman always comes first.She'll always find reason to be proud of you. And she will be proud of you even if she doesn't find a reason. But do not forget to praise her for her talent too. She doesn't like doing anything for which she'll not be appreciated.If you want a loyal, supportive, tender, caring, yet independent and intelligent wife, then it surely has to be an Aries woman :) . And yeah,last but not the least, giving her your debit card just means an empty bank account!!. But don't worry, of the things she has shopped for, atleast 40% will be something for you ;)

p.s. : I love being an Aries Woman :)


Chandana C. Shekar